How do you keep the lady you are dating?

Google+ Pinterest LinkedIn Tumblr +



My brother in relations there are always those bad days that you and your girl do get and be like why did date her in the first place, letting her go is not the answer to that problem if you still love her and you don’t want any man to use the differences you have as two. This is what you have to do to keep her to yourself.

  1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else, another man will.
  2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.
  3. Do not promise her and fail; do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don’t have than to promise and fail.
  4. Do not be stingy, avoid telling her that you don’t have, you don’t have all the time.
  5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g. show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.
  6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful, women need to be praised and reminded how they are beautiful, do that on a daily and don’t forget to always tell her that you love her.
  7. Play with her and joke with her daily.
  8. Don’t be too hard and don’t be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over a pet or over scold. Women love to be treated with care but they also love to be confronted on the mistakes they have done.
  9. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.
  10. Appreciate her when she helps you to do something.
  11. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions. At times women give better advises when it comes to some things.